I often hear people make statements like “you
are a virgin because you lack opportunity” and
I will like to correct that notion first before
any further statement.
Virginity is a sign of dignity and never ever a
lack of opportunity especially for those who
know what it means to be a virgin.
Please this paper is strictly for the singles or
let me say the unmarried people at such our
discussion covers all your life before the “Yes I
Do”. We have heard and got so many ideas on
the issue of virginity, as a matter of fact the
term virginity is not a new topic in the church
but for emphasis and necessity shall we be
considering some few issues on the topic.
Medically virginity is streamlined to the
feminine gender with the issue of an un-
ruptured hymen in the sexual organ which i
shall not be boring you with. Although virginity
has being streamlined to the female man in
the medical line and in the popular believe we
shall be digressing a little from that opinion by
adding that the male man too can be a virgin.
Virginity literally has to do with absolute
abstinence from sexual activities of any sought
(mind you it’s before marriage). And as a man
of valour or lady of integrity, it’s necessary to
keep your body and all your parts under
perfect control as clearly stated in romans 12;
1 aside from that they are some benefits you
may not be able to enjoy from God when
defiled sexually.
Taking David and Ahimelech the priest as a
case study (sacred bread) and a whole lot
more like in 1 Thessalonians 4;3 where Gods
will is clearly stated against sexual
immorality.Practically they are other benefits
of being a virgin like for instance its being
medically proven to be impossible for a virgin
to be infected by sexually transmitted diseases
like staphylococcus, syphilis and the likes
generally referred to as STIs.Also you know as
well as I do that it’s impossible for a
pregnancy case or unplanned paternity for a
virgin at such maintenance of your virginity
keeps you in check and focused.
Furthermore your ability to maintain your
virginity is to a great extent a representation
of your ability to control your own body.
Better put it shows your level of self-control
and maturity as the true big guy or lady is that
particular person who can control his or her
emotions.
Finally the best gift you can ever give to your
spouse is your virginity. But beyond this
practical benefits remember Romans 12; 1.
“Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of
God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living
sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God — this is
your spiritual act of worship”.
That notwithstanding there is a place for those
who have missed it either as a result of
ignorance or deliberate mistakes but have
acknowledged their mistakes and are willing to
make amends because God is an ever willing
to forgive God and whoever he has forgiven is
forgiven indeed.
For those who choose to misuse his mercy be
aware that we can’t continue in sin that grace
may abound.
There is judgment!
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