Sex is an important element in marriage
and until there is sexual intercourse
between a husband and a wife, the marriage
is not yet spiritually recognized. This shows
how important sex is in marriage.
When you look at how aggressive men are
towards sex you may think that what a man
needs from a woman is sex. Of course, if he
has not married you yet or he does not
really intend to marry you what he will need
from you is nothing above your body. But if
he really intends to marry you or if you
guys are already married sex is never what
he needs from you - maybe let me say it
better; "WHAT A MAN NEEDS MOST FROM A
WOMAN IS NOT SEX."
Many young girls think because they are
sexually active and experience they will
easily be married and have their husbands
loving them. And when a man approaches
for marriage they think the greatest asset
they have to show the man is sex. Others
also think once they are giving out their
bodies it means they are giving out the best
for which reason they will be chosen above
all.
There is this young girl who is very
beautiful and sexually active. Due to that
she thought sex is all that matters to a
man. Ironically, she struggled for long
before finally getting married. Her sexual
dexterity could not win her the heart of a
man until out of the blue and reason beyond
imagination a very handsome good man
married her. The wedding was grand and her
tears were now gone. Unfortunately only a
year after the wedding the marriage fell on
rocks. Within five years three different men
came her way but none could stay.
The problem was simple. She thought sex
was all that matters so she would never
submit. But submission is what men need,
not sex. It is time for our young ladies to
know that when a man is ready to marry he
will not look out for a woman who will
satisfy his sex drive but a woman who will
submit herself to him. Excuse my language,
"every woman has vagina but not every
woman has humility." So when you are a
humble woman, you are an expensive
jewelry. And a man of integrity will fear to
lose you.
What does the holy say, "wife, submit to
your husband." The reason is that a man's
true love goes out only for a woman who is
submissive. Your beauty cannot make
another woman ugly but your humility can
let him love you above all other women.
Sadly, many young ladies in our days call
submission as "control." And you will hear
them saying in tiny romantic voices, "As for
me I don't want any man to control me oh."
If you don't want to submit don't think of
marriage because no man in his right sense
will offer his love to a woman whose heart
is higher than his height, no matter how
short he may be.
When a woman bows her knee before a man,
the man will automatically bow his heart
before her love. And love her sincerely.
There are, of course, recalcitrant men who
will not value women of humility but I tell
you that every true man does not need sex,
but submission. It is submission that truly
makes you a romantic wife. So be the
African queen you want to be but when it
comes to dealing with your husband, play
the role of a humble maid. Don't forget
that it is the spirit of humility that has
caused many maids to hijack their
mistresses' husbands. Be your man's queen
and be his maid also.
I wish you all the best as you submit in your
relationship and marriage. May God bless
you with good marriage, my dear sister.
Forwards this to any female friend you care
about. Have a nice day.
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