I’d highly recommend that you use the below tips on your own first before trying this with a girl. Then once you build up your resistance levels and can control your orgasms to the point where you can choose when to blow your load, then that’s when you’re ready to try it with a girl.
1. FIND THE BLOW POINT (WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU’RE ABOUT TO EJACULATE?)
Ok, so the next time you sit down for some much needed alone time
. Notice what happens the very last second before you shoot your load. Try and notice any little thing, like your leg straightens or your butt cheeks tighten, whatever… every guy is different.
Right, now the next time you try this, put all your attention on that thing you do that helps you bust a nut. So if it’s your leg straightening out, make sure you bend it… this will throw your train of thought of from cumming.
2. FOCUS ON YOUR BREATHING
The next thing you want to do is focus on your breathing, when you’re about to cum… slow your breathing down. Take nice shallow deep breathes, in through the nose and out through the mouth.
Do this to both enhance the non-ejaculatory feeling and to also keep your semen in those sacks son!
3. SQUEEZE YOUR PC MUSCLE (CHEAT BY SQUEEZING THE TIP)
This is the important part. The muscle that is going to help you stop yourself from ejaculating fully is called the Pubococcygeus muscle and needs to be exercised daily.
It’s located between the butt hole and the balls. Feel it will your index finger and contract it, so you know where it is.
You can also cheat slightly by squeezing the helmet of your penis as well as contracting the PC muscle to stop any man juice from spilling.
4. Turn Up the Heat
Prior to sex, take a hot bath, or—if you're short on time—place a warm washcloth over your vulva for a few minutes. Heat boosts blood flow to your vagina, leading to increased lubrication and sensitivity, says Hilda Hutcherson, author of Pleasure.
5. Try the Tantric Method
As tantric instructor Dawn Cartright explains, harnessing the power of breath can slow down your mind and make it hyper-sensitive to full-body sensations. Open yourself up to orgasmic joys by breathing and rocking together, then tightening your PC muscles before sex.
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